{"id":5105,"date":"2020-08-21T09:52:04","date_gmt":"2020-08-21T09:52:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/?p=5105"},"modified":"2020-08-24T08:24:26","modified_gmt":"2020-08-24T08:24:26","slug":"learning-to-love-yourself-is-the-greatest-love-of-all","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/learning-to-love-yourself-is-the-greatest-love-of-all\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning to Love Yourself, is the Greatest Love of All"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Is this true for you? \u201cHow do you feel about yourself? <img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-5107\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash.jpg?resize=200%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-scaled.jpg?resize=200%2C300&amp;ssl=1 200w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-scaled.jpg?resize=683%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 683w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-scaled.jpg?resize=768%2C1152&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-scaled.jpg?resize=1024%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-scaled.jpg?resize=1365%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1365w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.johnthornhill.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/nick-fewings-ka7REB1AJl4-unsplash-scaled.jpg?w=1707&amp;ssl=1 1707w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>\u201cDo you treasure your own unique identity and live your life outrageously as you? Or do you live your life according to the expectations of your parents, partners, bosses, or your social connections?<\/p>\n<p>Michael Masser composed the music and Linda Creed wrote the lyrics to &#8220;The Greatest Love of All\u201d in the midst of her struggle with breast cancer.<\/p>\n<p>The beautiful words describe Linda\u2019s feelings about coping with great challenges that one must face in life. Showing strength during those challenges, regardless of success or failure, and passing that strength on to children to use now and into their adult lives.<\/p>\n<p>Linda\u2019s words though are far more than lyrics to a song. The legacy she left behind (Linda passed away in April 1986 at the age of 37) is a declaration of her own personal freedom, the life lessons she learned, and a prayer for the future.<\/p>\n<p>I also personally believe, that when Linda wrote: \u201cI decided long ago, never to walk in anyone\u2019s shadows, that these words and sentiments were meant to empower all of us who fear to be ourselves or live our lives desperately waiting for others approval.<\/p>\n<p>Also when Linda sings &#8221; If I fail, if I succeed, at least I\u2019ll live as I believe\u201d that these words are far more than an acceptance of oneself. They are a personal declaration of independence.<\/p>\n<p>These are words to live by.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Our Responsibility<\/strong><br \/>\nTruth is, our lives are fleeting by even as I write these words. Yours, like mine, is limited. \u201cSo why not make the most of what you have, what you truly own, and are totally responsible for, your life.<\/p>\n<p>Each of us has been given the two greatest gifts. Life and the power of choice. With these gifts comes great responsibility, to embrace our uniqueness and forge our own path in life, or to be doomed to follow meekly in someone else\u2019s shadow.<\/p>\n<p>The choice is yours, so choose wisely.<\/p>\n<p>Some of you reading this, maybe thinking \u201cit\u2019s easy for you to say this, you don\u2019t know my situation, family obligations, pressures I face, etc, and that\u2019s true, I don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>However, I do know because you are reading this, that there are some aspects in your life you would like to improve or consider changing.<\/p>\n<p>So I ask you, \u201cwas it easy when you decided to learn to walk, drive a car, have your first date, get a job, start a family?\u201d Perhaps not.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Was it worth it?<\/strong><br \/>\nThe effort to expand your abilities, increase your independence, take chances, learn how to love and have the love returned?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWas it worth attempting things you had never done before, falling down and refusing to give up, ignoring others who doubted your abilities, or downright stubbornness to succeed?<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Was it worth it? I suggest in some of these areas it would have been be very worthwhile.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So what&#8217;s holding you back now from being the best you can possibly be?<\/p>\n<p>Past hurts or disappointments, missed opportunities, hurtful remarks from others? These are the legacy form the past, the &#8220;old&#8221; you.<\/p>\n<p>The \u201cold\u201d you, is like old clothes, served a purpose, but now no longer needed or wanted.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Isn&#8217;t it time you moved on?<\/p>\n<p>Time to remove the shackles of the past, throw off the criticisms that hurt you, and embrace \u201cwarts and all\u201d who you truly are.<\/p>\n<p>Time to embrace the &#8220;New&#8221; you.<\/p>\n<p>Discover what you are truly capable of, share with the world your unique gifts and contributions.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, this is your life, you only have one, so embrace it for all its worth.<\/p>\n<p>Make the decision today, to live life on your own terms, face life&#8217;s challenges, accept the consequences, and experience the true joy of taking control of your life and future.<\/p>\n<p>Draw that line in the sand today, Use this present moment to start building a life to be truly proud of.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Your time is now.<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/groovefunnels.com\/?aff_id=4090\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Start here today<\/a> show the world the talents you have been hiding and discover what you are truly capable of. Remembering on your journey, and along the way that to love yourself \u201cis the greatest love of all\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Like more insightful or motivating articles check out my blog <a href=\"https:\/\/geofffarrugia.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">https:\/\/geofffarrugia.com\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>This is a guest post from <\/em><em>Geoff Farrugia, if you would like to be considered for a guest post please contact me.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is this true for you? \u201cHow do you feel about yourself? \u201cDo you treasure your own unique identity and live your life outrageously as you? 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